Virginity....

...when did you lose it? How old were you? How did it happen? With who? Was it like you expected it? Was it good?

Discuss

Awwwkward....
Well seeing I'm 15 never (Yet)

Well, I've cybered. Does that count?

Well unless you can penetrate through chat (if so, none of us are safe haha), then probably not.

Mine was at the age of 19. It was my dear friend actually. We had initially just been friends for about 1 year, but suddenly started hanging out a lot with each other, till we both started to feel something between us. She was leaving to Japan for good, as she had almost finished her degree (we were at the same uni u see). As it got closer to the date of her departure, we grew closer.
In the final week, we were sharing this coat because it was "cold," we were in the main quad of the uni. we were kind of in the right mood, so i decided to grab her hand and lead her somewhere nice to kiss her (this was this place with a mad view, especially as the sun set). As I was taking her there, a friend bumped into us, we quickly let go of each other and felt a bit awkward.
Later that night, we were out with a group of friends. As we were walking, we held hands (out of view).... we started trailing behind the others. Suddenly we turned, looking at each others intensely in the eyes. She looked beautiful, with the wind blowing in her hair. I held her face, then kissed her.
The next day I took her out, to a park and then to watch a show. We were still a bit nervous around each other, a little bit awkward when kissing and such. We saw a nice pond and sat on the grass together for a while. We begun kissing, then touching and suddenly we forgot the world existed around us. We were kissing intensely and passionately.... and all of a sudden, we remembered were we were... and decided to go to the show.
We didn't last long in the theatre, we constantly touching and left at the intermission. We went around the city searching for a room, and made sweet love. We spent hours awake with each other... I will never forget that experience..

Was that what I expected from my first? No, not at all. I thought it would be with some slut from a club, and I didn't expect the whole situation to work so perfectly (I didn't think I would know what I was doing). It was great, and the night after was even better (her last night here).

Anyways thats my story... I will let someone else talk.

I've never had a girlfriend, I'm too shy. And a massive prude that considers flirting to be indecent. ^_^;

Ikana said:
I've never had a girlfriend, I'm too shy. And a massive prude that considers flirting to be indecent. ^_^;

Mine was 2 weeks ago with my current girlfriend, and it hurt her at first but she was fine after a while. :-. It was pretty good, she even got some
pleasure out of it her self. We had ben and jerry's icecream afterwoods.

Haven't lost mine yet, but it's only a matter of time.

Lost mine at the age of 16 we stayed together for another two years, but we were both kinda stubborn and ended up breaking up. I was kinda heart broken after that. I kinda wish it didn't happen, but on the other hand it played a huge part of who I am now. So I guess it's better to have loved and lost then to not loved at all, right?

Also what makes things worst is I didn't see or speak to her for like 3 years. All of a sudden one of my friends came over to my house the other day, but the thing is he didn't tell me he was bringing her with him. So now I'm like "WTF is she doing here" and he's on some Dr. Phil bull shit asking why don't me and her speak to each other anymore? And saying "I know you two still love one another".

I thought friends were suppose to help you not secretly bring your ex to your house for a psychology session?

As of now I kinda feel like I'm in the same position as SL and Ikana except without all the shyness. Whenever I start to get romantically close to another girl thoughts from my past start to feel my head. Making things that were once easy for me to do now difficult. I guess I've become afraid of commitment

I'm a loser so, I haven't yet and probably never will. Oh well, I bet I can please myself better than any girl anyway

I actually want to save my virginity for that special someone, let's say a certain mod on this site beginning with J and a large mem...number(but that's all the information you're getting from me).
Problem is, we live so far apart.

Oh, one day...and a glorious one it'll be.

Bart.... said:
I actually want to save my virginity for that special someone, let's say a certain mod on this site beginning with J and a large mem...number(but that's all the information you're getting from me).
Problem is, we live so far apart.

But I'm straight old boy.

I was 20 and it was a big drunken and awkward mistake.

The first of a few drunken mistakes. I always got too drunk when I went out because I had no confidence and usually ended up making bad drunken choices.

Nah sorry, but I'm not attracted to you. Jorge aint that hot either.

Well, there's 2 ways to lose your virginity I believe. I'm saving the best stuff for later, and you never know if the other way is any good if you haven't tried it you know.

Bart.... said:
Nah sorry, but I'm not attracted to you. Jorge aint that hot either.

*gets nervous*

(please don't reject me Jacoby)

My first time wasn\'t as magical as ohm\'s unfortunately.

I was 18 (I\'m 21 now). I was a little drunk and spent the night with someone I had just met that same night. It was a fun night and even though I enjoyed it, I had been waiting for that \'special someone\' so I was a little dissappointed with myself afterwards. The next morning, we said our farewells and we haven\'t spoken since.

I don\'t mind though. It was good practice for when I finally got with someone I cared about.

( Edited 27.10.2009 21:23 by wAyNe - sTaRT )

I haven\'t lost mine yet either But will do someday, I\'ve only had a few girlfriends and they haven\'t lasted very long
I\'ve got my eye on two people though at Uni, it\'s really annoying having conflicting emotions. One is pretty much like me and nice, the other is a bit more mature mentally and quite caring. ARGH decisions
But hey, I\'m only 18 and I don\'t want to be drunk when I do it either, just want someone that I know well I think and am quite close to.

( Edited 27.10.2009 21:13 by Echoes221 )

Lost it at 13. I'm 14 now. inb4 underage b&

I met this girl online. We were friends for a long, long time before we actually met in person. By the time we met we were already pretty crazy about each other. After a few weeks, it just happened. We've been going out for about 8 months now.

Sorry Bart, but long distance relationships never work.

Yeah, waiting for that special someone, too shy to talk and all that shit.

Have a gf, gone into shirtless make-out sesh's, very passionate, but, virginity? who needs it? haha jk, but hey I'm 15, not yet, not until mawige

SnitchyPaws said:
not until mawige

We'll see how long that lasts...

Stucorbs said:

SnitchyPaws said:
not until mawige

We'll see how long that lasts...

Waiting for marriage is a stupid idea. Wait until you're in love. Most people don't even do that. But I never really understood waiting until marriage. The first time you have sex on your wedding night or whatever is going to be really awkward and you're going to suck.

Jacob4000 said:
Sorry Bart, but long distance relationships never work.

Who said we should be in a relationship?